How can my sister get her daughter to except her new baby brother?
Question by Frederic_LeGreat: How can my sister get her daughter to except her new infant brother?
She isಏ and has stated she refers to him as “IT” or “THE BABY”, the other day she wewnt into my sisters bedroom and stood above the Cot and informed the child she hated him – my suster was downstairs with the child alrm on.
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Answer by rebecca completely owns
im 15 and thats precisely what i would do if my mom got preggars. she possibly hates her mom for carrying out that to her more then she hates the baby…
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November 3rd, 2011 at 7:50 pm
The daughter doesn’t have to love her sibling. Give her some attention and loving too.
November 3rd, 2011 at 8:21 pm
Here’s what to do:
Make play time fun with the two of them. Give them dolls and let them hang out together or something
Give the daughter more attention. Then she’ll feel special. Don’t let her gloat to the baby.
Ask her why she doesn’t like the baby. Use calm words and don’t yell
Cancel out punishment. That never works. She’ll get jealous of the baby and angry that the baby got her into trouble.
Let her tickle and feed the baby.
Keep them in different rooms. Let them see each other for about one hour alone, but eavesdrop and listen to watch she says to the baby. That way, if she says something mean or rude to the baby, take her out and try again tomorrow.
Hope I helped.
November 3rd, 2011 at 8:24 pm
She’s probabaly feeling alot of negativity towards the baby because it was just her before and now the mjaority of her mums attention is going to the baby and she feels like she isn’t getting so her mum should do things with the both of them and include her in looking after the baby, like feeding him and things so she feels more involved.
Also some one on one time between her and her mum would probabaly help how she feels alot, she needs to feel like she can talk to her mum about how she’s feeling too so that things can be resolved