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November 4th, 2011 at 11:14 am
As with having a first baby, there is never a good/right time to have a baby. If you feel ready and you talk it over with your partner/husband and he feels ready too, and your pretty financially and emotionally secure, then go right ahead!
Good luck
November 4th, 2011 at 11:33 am
Personally i think nowadays we should be very conscious of what kind of life your kids are gonna have, and i don’t think people should have more than 1… and also people should adopt more, there are so many kids around the world wanting to have a home..
November 4th, 2011 at 12:10 pm
Ask yourself if you can afford to support another child?
November 4th, 2011 at 1:08 pm
You didn’t mention how old your first one is. Irish twins are not a good idea! I’ve known a few moms who kind of dropped off the face of the earth because their babies run them ragged.
My kids are 21 months apart- a nice gap because they are close enough to be friends but not too close. For about the first 6 months, I felt like I had two babies, which in some ways can be even more work than twins (at least twins start life sharing your attention and adapting to the same schedule). But once the older was potty trained and used to the big sister role, I was happy with the timing. A lot depends on you- some people (like the preschool teacher types) were just made for lots of children. Others like to take the stages one at a time.
One other thing to consider; your baby might be in that sweet, easygoing stage now, making you yearn for another. But consider how things change when they hit 2.
November 4th, 2011 at 1:55 pm
I’ve learned that there is a difference between craving another baby and being ready. When your lil one is out of the tiny baby phase and you start thinking I miss that! God allows us to forget most of our birth pains and so we start thinking yeah I could do that again! That is craving….
The flip side is that although you may WANT one it may not be the right time. You have to talk it over with your husband and look at what your plans and goals are for your first one. Being potty trained before your next is a tremendous help! Many people say you should have about two years between your babies. For us, we wanted to really enjoy our daughter and spend some alone time with her watching her develop and grow.
I also wanted to wait until she was old enough to be a little more independent in a few areas.
Although I started craving a baby when she was about 6 months old, I’m glad that we waited.
There is never a perfect time, you just want to make sure that you are really ready to lose sleep again and have enough room for another. I mean there are many aspects of course lol. Just talk things out and make sure you are doing it for the right reasons.
For me, after reading all this pregnancy stuff it made me want one right away lol.
Also not sure how far apart your babies would be but it is recommended that you give your body a full year to recover
Many blessings
November 4th, 2011 at 2:22 pm
i dont think the timing is ever perfect for anything. if you are having doubts then i would say your not quite ready. only you can know what your heart wants, you will know when you are ready.