What is the best way of telling your partner you want a baby?
Query by I have a cunning strategy, Ideal!!!!: What is the greatest way of telling your partner you want a child?
Should I just do some psychology on her? Plant loads of magazines about households, babies and mothers about the property so she will see them and stuff. Will that be the best way? I personally don’t want to say to her I want a infant. It might pressure her into possessing 1 and I do not want to do that so I believed I will play with her subconscious. Substantially safer
Are there any other approaches?
Falsey……………….just no!
Ideal answer:
Answer by Keri
Just basically say this:
“How would you feel about us starting a household one particular day?”
Can’t go wrong.
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September 5th, 2011 at 11:36 am
Use a pin to make tiny holes in all your condoms.
September 5th, 2011 at 12:18 pm
“I want a baby”
September 5th, 2011 at 12:33 pm
just come out with it say you would like to start trying for a family soon and you are prepared to wait til she is ready
September 5th, 2011 at 1:18 pm
Well beating around the bush isnt the right way to go..you should feel close enough to be able to talk to her about it if you wanna have a baby with the women.Tell her that your not pressuring her but you are wanting to start a family soon if she is ready for that..You alwyas make sure your in tune with her feelings as well so it doest overwhelm her if she isnt ready for it then she will know you are aware of how she feels about it.
September 5th, 2011 at 2:00 pm
Maybe don’t come right out with it if your not comfortable with that, but a conversation around it might be the best way to go! You could just generally start a conversation that gradually gets towards the topic of kids and your future with a family. You would certainly get the feel of how she feels about things in a less pressured way. Or if you really want to go down a much less open route you could just start ‘dropping’ in little lines into normal conversation about kids etc. and see how she reacts, like if you saw a cute kid out you could say something like “I hope ours is something like that” etc. It could just be a way of introducing the topic gently. Have you never spoken about family before?
Personally, if it was me, I would rather you just said that you’d been thinking more and more about starting a family and wondered what her thoughts were and then you can discuss things like timing. But if you feel this is not appropriate, then maybe try some of the above. Good luck x